“Disorganization, procrastination, addiction to technology, or refusal to do unpleasant duties tends to stress us more than diligence, organization, decisiveness, or self-denial.”
Reset by David Murray has a good point here. Are we shooting ourselves in the foot sometimes? Putting off things we need to do, leaving the mess because it’s overwhelming, not mopping the floor for a month because we really hate it?
Most of us would agree that we don’t like stress and its effects on us. We’ve even heard, and tried to ignore, the health horror stories of how stress makes you sick over time.
BUT
Has that made a difference in how we tackle life?
- Making an hour to plan out two weeks of meals will cut out the daily stress of answering “What’s for dinner?” with “I have no idea!” for a beautiful 14 days.
- Creating a cleaning routine and racing yourself to finish the daily section will take the stress out of housework piling up and add a little bit of fun to your day.
- Going to the grocery stores for the main shopping with a list and a plan saves time and constant decisions in the store.
- Biting the bullet and cleaning out that closet you try not to see will give you access to storage and a more peaceful environment. Then you can exercise tiny bits of effort to maintain the order and hold off the chaos from coming back.
- Having a current to-do list and calendar keeps the day on track and gives you the comfort of knowing where you are going and what you truly need to do.
Just one of these steps will help you and your stress level and the peace of your household. It will take some effort up front, but that work will pay off over and over after that.
I need to print this out and post it above my computer! I was labeling my to-dos as “unpleasant tasks,” until I decided that has a negative connotation. So glad to see it here! Thanks for the reminder that getting those necessary but not-that-fun items out of the way can contribute to household peace!
You are most welcome. Thanks for the feedback!
Have a peaceful day!