Only Cute Snowballs Allowed

Have you ever come home from a trip, dropped your suitcase, and then left it on the floor for days because you were just too tired to deal with unpacking?

It’s one thing if you roll in after midnight — go to bed, by all means! But, for the most part, I have learned that tackling the chore of unpacking is better done sooner rather than later.

You’ll be sorry if you don’t. The longer the task sits there, hanging over your head, waiting and condemning, the worse you fell about it. The effect of all that anticipation and procrastination snowballs. Just like a little snowball packed in your hand can roll around the yard and become the base for a snowman (if you’ve never done this, it might be fun to watch a video online about it to get the full effect), the emotional and mental weight of a reasonable task can become overwhelming.

It’s quicker that way. If you think about the time it takes to unzip the suitcase, put the clean clothes away, dump the laundry in the hamper, and put the devices back where they belong… Let’s be real here; it’s not that long, especially if you pack smart. If you delay and add the time sitting, the time walking by it, the time excusing yourself for not tackling it, the time thinking about how it needs to be done, you can run up a tab — or roll a snowball — a lot bigger than the minutes it would have taken to just do it.

Some of us don’t struggle much with unpacking suitcases. What about unpacking groceries after a major trip to the store? What about putting away the clean laundry? What about loading the dishwasher after baking up a storm? The principle holds true in a bunch of other cases. Think about whether postponing the chore is worth it in the long run.

Leave a Breadcrumb Trail

Remember Hansel and Gretel? Part of planning to succeed is marking a path, leaving yourself reminders. Set yourself up to do what you have determined is best. Or, set yourself up for success.

Put reminders in your path. If you need to bring a present to the shower, put it by the front door. Tripping over something can be such an effective reminder.

Keep a basket on the stairway of items to go upstairs — and make a habit to check it each time your hands are empty on the way up.

Put the discussion questions for the book club meeting in your planner in the week of the meeting. You won’t need them until then, but you’ll have them when you do need them.

Set alarms. Many have found this a top benefit of the smartphone. You can remind yourself to stop doing something because your time is up. You can remind yourself to start doing something so you can be ready in time. Set an alarm to remind you to change the laundry or start making dinner.

Race the stopwatch or egg timer with routine cleaning tasks. Give yourself 20 minutes to power nap. Play with it and do what works best for you — but make the most of the tool.

Schedule time on a regular basis to accomplish the steps in your plan. If you know you will need a lot of time, over a good chunk of time, go ahead and schedule it. You will run into the calendar entry, hopefully, and remember to chip away at the project.

If you block time on your schedule on a monthly and weekly basis, you make sure you stumble over what you need to do. Some of us need that extra help! Often distractions consume our days, but if your calendar simply reminds you that you need to spend an hour paying bills today in spite of those distractions, you have a helping hand.